Pondan is a Malay slang word that can have different connotations and interpretations depending on the context and the speaker.
It can generally be defined as a male who is more feminine, or a female who is more masculine. It can also refer to someone who is gay, transgender, or cross-dressing.
The term may have originated from the Malay word darai, which means “sexual impotence in the female”. It may also be related to the Proto-Germanic root *þwerhaz, which means “crooked” or “twisted”. The word pondan is often used as a derogatory term to insult or mock someone who does not conform to the traditional gender norms or expectations of Malay society.
However, some people may use the word pondan in a more neutral or positive way, to express their identity or solidarity with the queer community. Queer is an umbrella term that encompasses sexual and gender minorities who are not heterosexual or cisgender. Some people may prefer to use the word queer instead of pondan, as it is more inclusive and less stigmatising.
In conclusion, the meaning of pondan in Malay is not fixed or simple, as it can vary depending on the situation and the perspective of the speaker and the listener. It can be a term of abuse or a term of pride, depending on how it is used and received. Therefore, it is important to be respectful and sensitive when using or encountering this word.
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This article was written by Roy Tan.