Sasja Sÿdek, an indigenous Singaporean trans woman of colour based in Narrm/Melbourne, is a passionate activist and advocate for the transgender community. Sasja, a co-founder of Trans Sisters United, passionately champions equality through her unwavering dedication to fairness and human rights, tirelessly combating violence against trans women while leading the not-for-profit organisation in developing initiatives supporting transgender women, non-binary individuals, and women through advocacy, education, and community partnerships, a co-founder of Queer Muslim Naarm, founded in 2024 by Sasja and Boudie, hosts inclusive Iftar events during Ramadan to unite queer Muslims and allies. The gatherings provide a supportive space for fellowship, reflection, and celebration of identity, advocating for LGBTQIA+ rights within both the Muslim and LGBTQIA+ communities through education and activism, fostering acceptance and understanding. Sasja has made significant contributions to two books "Nothing To Hide - Voices of Trans & Gender Diverse of Australia", and Transgender Australia A History Since 1910.
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Foreground - Portraits of Older Transgender and Gender Diverse People
Sasja is a recognised personality in television and radio, hosting "Trans Fabulous" on Channel 31. Her outstanding contributions as a radio presenter and producer at “Queering The Air” on 3CR 855am has been recognised with multiple awards. Furthermore, she is also a presenter at “Everybody Eats” on Joy 94.9fm. Sasja unwavering commitment to equality stems from her strong belief in equity and human rights and she encourages others to break free from societal and gender expectations to live authentically. In addition to her fervent advocacy for her community, Sasja harbours a deep passion for both fashion and food. She was majoring in Fashion Marketing and Management from Raffles LaSalle Institute Singapore, She embarked on her career in the fashion industry from 2003 to 2020. Sasja recently marked her entry into the modelling world by strutting down the runway for Global Indigenous Runway at the Melbourne Fashion Festival in March 2024. Sasja participated in the third season of The Bent Spoon, a television program highlighting cooking with Multicultural LGBTQIA individuals, where she demonstrated her culinary prowess. Sasja is one of the 18 subjects featured in a photo book *Foreground: Portraits of Older Transgender and Gender Diverse People* by Marlo W. Foreground is a celebration of a group of people who are often overlooked. Sharing the stories of older transgender and gender diverse (TGD) people is integral to demythologising transgender people to the broader community. There is a need to platform the voices of older TGD people who have long been marginalised by society and portrayed negatively in mainstream media. Sasja also emphasised the importance of balance in life, noting the necessity of advocating for the rights of transgender individuals while also prioritising self-care to avoid burnout.
Bedok North Primary School Singapore
After graduating from Bedok North Primary School, Sasja applied to three schools like any other student. Springfield Secondary School accepted her application, although it wasn't her first choice. Despite this, she was thrilled to attend a brand new school. In her first year, she found herself in an all-boys class comprised of students with the highest PSLE scores. Sasja gained recognition for her achievements in theater performing arts, participating in enrichment courses by professional theater companies and practitioners during her time at Springfield Secondary School. Following high school, Sasja took a break from academics to focus on her transitioning journey. Raised in a Muslim household, maintaining her faith while navigating her identity as a trans woman presented significant challenges. Despite her family's lack of understanding and support, Sasja made the difficult decision to leave home at 16 with minimal resources and a backpack filled with female clothing. She found guidance and support from Amy Tashiana, a transgender public figure in Singapore, who became her mentor. Under Amy's mentorship, Sasja learned to embrace her identity, develop independence, and navigate the process of legal hormone replacement therapy (HRT).
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Regrettably, Sasja's relationship with her mother and grandparents became limited to phone calls, with almost no communication for a year except for Hari Raya also known as Eid Mubarak wishes. It wasn't until six years later that Sasja reunited with her family, a reunion that paved the way for the development of a close bond with her mother and grandmother. Despite initial concerns and apprehensions from her family, Sasja's transition, employment, and life as a woman unfolded without descending into the chaos and doom they had feared. By the age of 20, Sasja had achieved financial independence, marking a significant milestone in her journey towards self-sufficiency. At 21, she underwent her first breast augmentation, a decision that affirmed her identity and empowered her to live authentically.
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Sasja embarked on her academic journey at Raffles LaSalle Design Institute Singapore, driven by her passion for fashion and marketing. Although her pursuit of a degree in Fashion Marketing & Management was interrupted when she left college prematurely, it marked the beginning of her remarkable career in the fashion industry. With determination and talent, Sasja swiftly ascended to the role of fashion stylist, where her creative vision and impeccable taste caught the attention of industry luminaries. Collaborating with A-listers such as Supermodel Lily Cole, Bollywood actress and model Nargis Fakhri, and Photographer Chuando Tan, among others, Sasja's portfolio grew to include notable assignments spanning editorial and advertising styling. Her expertise extended beyond styling to encompass production for fashion runways and television/movie sets, showcasing her versatility and proficiency in various aspects of the fashion world.
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Prior to venturing into the captivating realms of the entertainment and fashion industry, Sasja delved into a unique facet of the modelling world, where she embraced her sensual and daring side as an adult model. With an innate exhibitionist streak and an admiration for the allure of erotic beauty, Sasja embarked on a journey that would redefine her path. Adopting the alluring persona of Roxy, she navigated the intricate landscape of American and Japanese websites and magazines, immersing herself in an industry that thrived on provocative imagery and bold expressions of sensuality. For eight remarkable years, Sasja's tenure as an adult model exceeded her wildest expectations, both creatively and financially. With each photoshoot and video project, she pushed the boundaries of artistic expression while relishing in the liberation of her self-professed exhibitionism. Her work transcended mere imagery, serving as a testament to her unapologetic embrace of her own sexuality and empowerment. Despite the transient nature of the industry, Sasja found fulfilment and financial success, proving her mettle as a fearless trailblazer in an often misunderstood realm.
2002 - Japan "Shemale" Magazine
However, as all journeys eventually reach their conclusion, Sasja bid farewell to her time as an adult model in 2008. Her final photo/video shoot marked the end of a transformative chapter, filled with memories, experiences, and lessons that
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would shape her future. endeavours. Though her time in the spotlight may have drawn to a close, the indelible impact of her journey lingered, serving as a testament to her resilience, creativity, and unwavering commitment to self-expression.
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Japan "Shemale" Magazine 2005
Sasja was showcased in a documentary film selected for the European Film Festival 2001. Despite lacking acting experience, Sasja's captivating personality captured the attention of Andy, the film producer. The German-language documentary portrayed Sasja's daily life as a young transgender woman in Singapore, with film crews documenting her activities for seven consecutive months. Regrettably, the film did not receive any awards. Titled "Leben einer 'Prinzessin'" (Life of a "Princess"), it offered a glimpse into Sasja's journey.
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In the annals of Singapore's history, 2003 marked a pivotal moment for transgender visibility as Sasja emerged as one of the trailblazers, boldly stepping into the limelight as one of the first openly transgender individuals to grace the pages of FHM Magazine Singapore. This groundbreaking feat not only shattered stereotypes but also challenged societal norms, heralding a new era of inclusivity and representation in mainstream media.
Sasja's feature in FHM Magazine Singapore was not merely a photo shoot or a brief mention; it was a profound statement of empowerment and acceptance. Her two-page spread interview, provocatively titled "In Bed With A Transsexual," sparked a national conversation, igniting debates on gender identity, sexuality, and the fluidity of human expression. Sasja's candid and unapologetic portrayal of her authentic self resonated deeply with readers, transcending cultural barriers and sparking a wave of empathy and understanding.
FHM Magazine Singapore
Accompanied by photographs capturing her in a little black dress and patent leather thigh-high boots, Sasja exuded confidence and poise, challenging conventional notions of beauty and femininity. Her striking presence on the glossy pages of FHM Magazine Singapore and subsequently in FHM MagazineThailand captured the imagination of audiences far and wide, propelling her into the spotlight as a beacon of courage and resilience.
Amidst the glare of media attention and public scrutiny, Sasja remained steadfast in her conviction to live authentically and unapologetically. Her willingness to defy societal expectations and embrace her identity as a transgender woman inspired countless individuals grappling with similar struggles of self-acceptance and belonging. Through her visibility and advocacy, Sasja not only paved the way for future generations of transgender individuals but also catalysed a seismic shift in societal attitudes towards gender diversity and inclusion.
In retrospect, Sasja's appearance in FHM Magazine Singapore and FHM Magazine Thailand was not just a milestone in her personal journey; it was a watershed moment in the ongoing fight for equality and recognition for transgender individuals worldwide. Her courage, resilience, and unwavering commitment to authenticity serve as a timeless reminder that true beauty lies not in conformity but in embracing the full spectrum of human diversity.
Rima S - Girls You Got It (Music Video)
Rima S - Girls You Got It (Music Video)
Sasja Sÿdek appeared in a music video titled "Girls You Got It - Rima S," alongside celebrity trans individuals, drag queens, and trans showgirls from Singapore. Directed by Royston Tan, with music produced by George Leong and lyrics by Marcus Frenell and Michael Erickson, the video featured a diverse cast including celebrity Kumar, Liz, Helda, Sammi Zhen, LeRoy, Mistevious, Amy Tashiana, Sabrina, Noristar, Crescent, Veron, Voguelicious, The Burly Girlies, Antonio, Adriano, and DJ George.
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Sasja's life has been a tapestry woven with threads from different corners of the world. From the bustling streets of Shanghai to the serene landscapes of England, and the vibrant culture of the UAE, she has experienced the diversity of global living. Yet, amidst her travels and adventures, it was the enchanting allure of Melbourne, Australia, that truly resonated with her soul. The dynamic blend of cultures, the thriving arts scene, and the inclusive atmosphere of Melbourne captured Sasja's heart, making it a place she proudly calls home. Here, she found a sense of belonging, a community that embraced her for who she is, and opportunities to thrive both personally and professionally. In Melbourne, Sasja's journey comes full circle, as she continues to contribute to the rich tapestry of this multicultural city while cherishing the bonds she has forged in her newfound home.
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On March 8, 2020, Sasja enthusiastically engaged in the Th!s Is Me fundraiser project and movement, which had a profound purpose: to generate funds for a family violence support group located in Melbourne. This noble endeavor coincided with both the prestigious Melbourne Fashion Festival and the globally recognised International Women's Day, enhancing its significance and reach. At its core, the event aimed to confront and challenge the pervasive societal pressures placed upon women, urging them to conform to narrow standards of beauty and behaviour.
Th!s Is Me - IWD2020
Th!s Is Me - IWD2020 (Video)
The Th!s Is Me Fashion Show emerged as a beacon of empowerment and inclusivity, offering a welcoming platform for women to celebrate their multifaceted identities authentically. Through this showcase, participants sought to shatter the confines of societal expectations, advocating for the recognition and celebration of each individual's inherent worth and uniqueness. By rejecting the notion of prescribed molds, the event aimed to in-still a sense of empowerment among women, encouraging them to boldly embrace their diverse attributes and contributions.
In this transformative environment, Sasja, alongside 33 other women, took to the runway with confidence and purpose, symbolising solidarity in the collective struggle against societal norms. Their participation underscored a commitment to supporting organisations dedicated to uplifting and empowering women, especially those navigating the challenging terrain of family violence. As they strutted with determination and grace, these women embodied resilience and courage, inspiring others to embrace their own journeys of self-discovery and authenticity. Through their collective efforts, they illuminated the path towards a more inclusive and compassionate society, one that honours and celebrates the inherent worth of every individual, regardless of societal expectations.
Sasja Sÿdek found herself immortalised in portraits alongside ten other women, spanning diverse ages from 20 to 60 years old, encompassing both cisgender and transgender individuals hailing from various cultural backgrounds such as Vietnam, Tanzania (Zanzibar), Southeast Asia, Indigenous Australia, and Europe. These captivating portraits were the work of artist Bernzerk, also known as Bernie Cliford, showcased at his art exhibition titled P.O.M.E.
Entitled "This is Me... Anymore It’s You...," the series captured the essence of each subject over the course of 18 months, inviting viewers to engage in a thought-provoking dialogue. The series juxtaposed deliberate sexualised imagery often found on dating and sex worker apps with portraits devoid of such intent, challenging societal perceptions and expectations regarding femininity and sexuality.
Through these striking portraits, Bernzerk sought to spark conversations surrounding the objectification of women in media and society, highlighting the contrast between authentic self-expression and the commodification of sexuality. By placing Sasja and her fellow subjects in the spotlight, the exhibition aimed to foster a deeper understanding of identity, agency, and the complexities of representation in contemporary culture.
The exhibition, "This is Me... Anymore It’s You...," offered a poignant reflection on the nuances of female identity and empowerment, inviting viewers to reevaluate preconceived notions and embrace the diversity of human experience. As the exhibition drew to a close in February 2021, its impact reverberated beyond the confines of the gallery, leaving a lasting impression on those who had the privilege of experiencing its powerful message.
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In 2020, Sasja Sÿdek received an invitation from SlutWalk Melbourne to deliver a speech at their annual rally, a significant honour and testament to her advocacy for marginalised communities. The SlutWalk movement originated in 2011 following a controversial statement by a Toronto Police Services representative suggesting that women could avoid sexual assault by not dressing provocatively. This incendiary comment sparked widespread outrage and galvanized a global movement aimed at challenging victim-blaming and promoting consent culture.
Due to COVID-19, the 2020 "rally" couldn't take place in person. Instead, it was broadcast by 3CR Community Radio on Sunday, the 29th, at 1 pm. provided a platform for Sasja to share her personal experiences of discrimination, harassment, and violence faced by transgender and LGBTQIA+ individuals. In her impassioned address, Sasja shed light on the insidious issues of slut-shaming, body-shaming, victim-blaming, sexual harassment, and rape culture that permeate society. By bravely sharing her own story and advocating for awareness and change, Sasja demonstrated her unwavering commitment to justice and equality for all.
SlutWalkMelbourne Rally
Her closing remarks encapsulated the essence of the SlutWalk Melbourne movement, emphasising the importance of education and awareness in dismantling harmful societal norms. Sasja eloquently stated, "The core of the problem lies in the difference between how society are raised and educated, but people will not become aware of that until they first learn what rape culture and slut-shaming are and how they have taken part in it. The first step to solving any problem is educating others about it first, and I think that really resonates through the Slut Walk Melbourne movement."
Through her participation in SlutWalk Melbourne and her powerful advocacy efforts, Sasja Sÿdek continues to be a beacon of hope and change in the ongoing struggle for gender equality and social justice. Her courage and determination inspire others to join the fight against injustice and to create a more inclusive and compassionate world for future generations. Sasja has been supporting the campaign to this day.
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Sasja's down town time, she enjoys the typical pursuits of a stylist, particularly shopping in her spare time. However, her shopping excursions are not just for the sake of acquiring new items; she has a keen eye for rare, collectible, and unique pieces that can add a special touch to her wardrobe. The thrill of discovering these treasures fuels her passion for fashion, and she takes great pleasure in curating a collection that reflects her distinctive style. Shopping for her is an art form, an opportunity to find items that tell a story and express her individuality.
Dining out is another of Sasja's passions, and she makes it a point to explore new restaurants at least once a week. She relishes the experience of trying different cuisines and savoring new flavors. For her, dining is not just about the food but also about the ambiance and the joy of discovering culinary creativity. Socializing at events and parties is something she truly enjoys, as it allows her to connect with others, share experiences, and build a vibrant social life. These gatherings provide her with the perfect opportunity to showcase her fashion finds and enjoy the company of friends and acquaintances.
Despite her love for going out, Sasja equally cherishes her time at home, especially during the winter months when she can relax by the fireplace. Her home is her sanctuary, a place where she can unwind and recharge. She often hosts friends for lunch or dinner, taking the chance to exhibit her culinary skills and create memorable experiences for her guests. Cooking for others brings her joy, and she takes pride in her ability to craft delicious meals. Home, for Sasja, is a temple where she finds peace and solace, a refuge from her busy life.
Though sports are not a major interest for Sasja, she is always open to trying new activities at least once. A few years ago, she tried surfing, an experience that she can now proudly check off her list. This willingness to step out of her comfort zone highlights her adventurous spirit and her desire to embrace new experiences, even if they are outside her usual interests.
On weekends, especially Sundays, you can often find Sasja at the South Melbourne Market, a place that fascinates her with its vibrant atmosphere, diverse spices, and array of food. The market is a sensory delight for her, and she enjoys spending time there, soaking in the sights, sounds, and smells. It’s a place where she can indulge her curiosity and appreciation for culinary arts, further enriching her passion for food and culture.
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